ATTENTION: FOUNDERS, EXECUTIVES, AND BUSINESS OWNERS

Why You Keep Sabotaging Yourself (And How To Finally Stop)

You've built the seven-figure business, title, income, and it still feels empty. Then stress builds and the bad habits take over.

Find out how to end this cycle at Master Self-Discipline Live.

2-Day Virtual Event

AUGUST 24TH & 25TH

12:30 - 2:00 PM PST

Can't make it live? Replays sent to all attendees.

You've tried to be more disciplined, but fall back into old patterns..

  • You're running a real business or a real team, and on paper your resume looks great. Except you don't feel like the man on that resume, and you're exhausted from pushing toward goals that stopped exciting you.

  • On paper everything is working. Internally you feel like you're running at 60% of what you know you're capable of

  • You can perform but you can't remember the last time you felt genuinely driven by something

  • You know exactly what you should be doing. You just can't seem to make yourself do it.

This is the Reason Why "More Discipline" Fails:

The problem is not because you're lazy or lack discipline.

You're running a company, managing a team, and have a level of responsibility most people cannot handle. That takes real discipline.

The problem is you're trying to build new habits on top of an old version of yourself.

You've tried to be more disciplined, but fall back into old patterns..

  • On paper everything is working. Internally you feel like you're running at 60% of what you know you're capable of

  • You've built success but you don't feel as successful as your resume, and you're exhausted from pushing yourself toward goals that stopped exciting you.

  • You can perform. You just can't remember the last time you felt genuinely driven by something

  • You know exactly what you should be doing. You just can't make yourself do it when it counts.

This is why "More Discipline" doesn't work:

It's not because you're lazy or lack discipline. It's because you're trying to build new habits on top of an old version of yourself.

When pressure shows up, your brain defaults back to who you were, not who you're trying to become. That's the real problem. And it's fixable.

Why the SFA METHOD is the answer you're looking for.

Using my simple framework, you’ll discover…

When you upgrade your identity, behavior and consistency come natural to you.

  • Where you lose authority: The exact moment you lose control to avoidance, scrolling, drinking, overthinking or self-sabotage.

  • Why it keeps happening: Not “because you’re weak,” but because your current identity collapses under stress.

  • How to change for good: So your decisions match the man you want to be, even when you’re under pressure.

Introducing Master Self-Discipline Live

A LIVE 2-day training for men who run companies, lead teams, or carry serious responsibility, and still feel stuck and frustrated by their own patterns.

Over 2 days, you'll discover:

  • Why you sabotage yourself every week despite knowing what to do

  • How the Monday reset trap works and how to shut it down

  • What misalignment exists between your identity and behavior

  • How to restore internal authority so follow-through feels natural again.

Day 1

Why You Lose Control When It Counts

  • Why men running businesses and teams sabotage momentum even when they know better.

  • Why productivity systems fail when identity and behavior are misaligned.

  • How stress triggers the destructive patterns that keep you stuck in the same cycle.

  • How the gap between who you are and who you are trying to be creates constant internal resistance.

Day 2

Become the Man Who Follows Through

  • How self-trust is built or destroyed in the daily decisions you make.

  • Why hesitation and second-guessing yourself shows up more at higher levels of success.

  • What needs to be installed for consistency to return and feel natural.

  • How to stop the Monday reset cycle and restore your internal authority.

Introducing Master Self-Discipline Live

A LIVE 2-day training high performing men who look successful on the outside but feel unfulfilled and frustrated by their own patterns.

Over 2 days, you'll discover:

  • Why you sabotage yourself every week despite knowing what to do

  • How the Monday reset trap works and how to shut it down

  • What misalignment exists between your identity and behavior

  • How to restore internal authority so follow-through feels natural again.

Day 1

Why You Lose Control When It Counts

  • Why high performing men sabotage momentum even when they know better.

  • Why productivity systems fail when identity and behavior are misaligned.

  • How stress triggers the destructive patterns that keep you stuck in the same cycle.

  • How the gap between who you are and who you are trying to be creates constant internal resistance.

Day 2

Become the Man Who Follows Through

  • How self-trust is built or destroyed in the daily decisions you make.

  • Why hesitation and second-guessing yourself shows up more at higher levels of success.

  • What needs to be installed for consistency to return and feel natural.

  • How to stop the Monday reset cycle and restore your internal authority.

This is NOT for you if:

It's DEFINITELY for you if:

❌ You are early in your career and still building your first real income

❌ Nobody's paycheck or outcome depends on the decisions you make

❌ You want quick motivation or productivity hacks.

You want someone to tell you exactly what to do without understanding why.

✅ You run a business, lead a team, or carry executive-level responsibility but feel unfulfilled internally.

✅ You self-sabotage despite knowing what to do.

✅ You have already made real money and it has not fixed the internal problem

✅ You are tired of forcing discipline and want follow through that feels natural

If nothing changes…

Six months from now, you’ll still be doing the same thing.

You’ll start the week strong, then stress hits, you disappear into old patterns and you spend the weekend rebuilding your confidence just enough to try again Monday.

And the scariest part is not the habits...It’s what that cycle does to your identity.

Every misstep teaches you the same message: “I can’t trust myself.” That message leaks into your leadership, relationships, health, work, and your peace.

This is your chance to interrupt the pattern before it becomes your personality.

Every time you break a promise to yourself, you’re training yourself disobedience.

You’re either training self-trust… or self-doubt. Let’s change that today. 

If nothing changes…

Six months from now, you’ll still be doing the same thing.

You’ll start the week strong, then stress hits, you disappear into old patterns and you spend the weekend rebuilding your confidence just enough to try again Monday.

And the scariest part is not the habits...It’s what that cycle does to your identity.

Every reset teaches you the same message: “I can’t trust myself.” That message leaks into your leadership, your relationships, your health, your work and your peace.

This is your chance to interrupt the pattern before it becomes your personality.

Every time you break a promise to yourself, you’re training something.

You’re either training self-trust… or self-doubt.

Let’s change that today. 

This is NOT for you if you:

Want quick motivation or productivity hacks

Are looking for a magic pill that requires no self-reflection

Are not willing to examine your identity and behavior honestly

Want someone to tell you exactly what to do without understanding why

Are not open to the idea that procrastination is a signal, not a character flaw

It's DEFINITELY for you if you:

✅Look successful on paper but feel stuck and unfulfilled internally

✅Procrastinate on things that matter despite knowing what to do

✅Want to understand the root cause of why you lose momentum

✅Are tired of forcing discipline and want follow through that feels natural

✅Value depth, precision, and strategic understanding over surface tactics

CLIENT RESULTS

quit drinking, Two pay increases, Discipline increased 60%

"If you are ready to change your life, and make a committed investment to improve who you are, not just today, but who you are becoming, then this might be the best money you ever spend."

- Joey

Lost 16 Pounds, Quit smoking, 40% increase in both Motivation and Discipline

"I was exhausted and miserable. I didn't like myself, my work, or the parent I was showing up as. Now I'm intentional, I have real energy"

- Colin

Best Shape of His Life, Quit Drinking, Smoking, Closer to His Kids

"The biggest shift was positive self talk, mindset. We're in this loop of negative self talk and I've learned to take control of my mindset and I'm excited about the future."

- Matt

40% increase in both Motivation and Confidence, Lost 10 lbs

""I am more structured and consistent. Morning/night routines and better habits. Overall, the biggest change is that I finally feel confident and trust myself again."

- Jason

Quit Smoking & Discipline increased 50%

"Leave your ego at the door. Don't be skeptical and just take the actions. If you allow Sarah to help you, you will change and it will work."

- Michael

Quit Drinking, Smoking, Increased Overall fulfillment by 70% & happiness by 60%

"For the first time, that life feels close, like I’m really living it. If you want a coach who gives you structure and helps you follow through, Sarah is it."

- Dan

Meet your Host

Sarah Frances Anane

Sarah built her career closing multi-million dollar commercial real estate deals in rooms full of men. She understands how high-performing men operate when it matters.

Most men hit a point where external success stops matching internal follow-through. They know exactly what needs to happen but can't make it stick.

After breaking her own self sabotaging patterns and understanding what actually creates lasting change, Sarah developed the SFA METHOD Method to address the root cause: identity misalignment, not weak discipline.

Sarah works with founders, entrepreneurs, executives, and leaders. She identifies exactly where self-trust broke down and what must be rebuilt for permanent change.

Her approach focuses on aligning habits with identity so men start trusting their own follow-through again. Clients report up to 35% decrease in stress, 60% increase in daily satisfaction, and 25% improvement in overall fulfillment.

Frequently Asked Questions

What happens after I register?

Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with all the details you need to prepare for the event. This includes the event schedule, access links, and what to expect.

When is the event happening?

The event runs live August 24th & 25th at 12:30 pm - 2:00 pm PST (90-minute sessions each day).

How do I access the live training?

You will receive a unique link to join the live sessions via email. Simply click the link before the session starts, and you will be good to go.

What if I cannot make it live. How long do I have access to replays?

Attendees will have access to the replays for 24 hours after each session.

I am extremely busy. Is this worth my time?

If you are busy but still procrastinating, losing momentum when pressure hits, or feeling unfulfilled despite your success, then yes. This training will show you why you are stuck so you stop wasting time forcing strategies that do not work. Two days, 90 minutes each. That is 3 hours total to understand what has been holding you back for years.

I've done therapy/coaching before. How is this different?

Therapy helps you understand your past. Coaching gives you tactics for your future. But neither explains why you know exactly what to do and still can't make it stick.

This event addresses the gap both miss: identity misalignment. When who you are doesn't match how you're operating, no amount of talk therapy or accountability calls will fix it.

You'll see exactly where self-trust broke down and what must be reinstalled for your actions to match your standards again.

Is this for me if I'm not running a business?

This event is built for men who already carry real responsibility, running a company, leading a team, managing a department. If that's not you yet, the identity work here won't land the same way.

Still have questions?

Reach out to us at [email protected] and we will be happy to help.

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